When you grow up, you don’t really worry about your parents. They’re just there, acts of nature. As far as you knew, they existed since the beginning of time and they would be here for the rest of it. Sisters are there mostly to be teased, so I didn’t get too caught up with worrying about her either.
In other words, it was just me I had to worry about. Life was good. Life was simple.
But then this marriage thing happened. For the first time in my life I worried when this person left the house. “Would she make it back?” my crazy mind would wonder. “I sure hope she’s okay,” would be a thought I would regularly have when she was gone for more than ten minutes.
As far as I knew, this was a bizarre thought for a grown man to have. It reminded me, weirdly, of when my mom would have something that can only be compared to a heart attack and a stroke at the same time when I would come back a few minutes after my curfew.
At first, I thought this was an aberration, a confusing problem brought on by those silly Disney love movies that make it seem like you should actually care about the people around you. Something I would get over soon enough.
But then baby #1 came. And you see, now there was this precious thing, this thing that I was for the first time aware did not exist for all time. This was no force of nature, this was a treasure that appeared because of a very delicate and luck-filled series of events. She had to be delivered in a hospital because something could go wrong. She was this delicate thing. One wrong move and… I didn’t want to think about it.
I was no longer just worrying at specific moments. I was worrying all the freaking time. Every cry, every time I didn’t hold her perfectly, that time I wasn’t paying attention when she was in a sling and I lightly tapped her head against a bookstore display case. And just about every time in between.
This experience taught me something: that life is precious. That it’s delicate, and we’re all lucky if we happen to be moving at all, let alone healthy and vibrant.
This was not a realization I wanted to have. I liked it so much more when my parents were forces of nature, when my sister existed solely to be teased… At this point, I was even willing to go back to the time when I only worried about my wife when she would go out. This realization about my daughter meant that I suddenly worried about everyone even close to me.
When daughter #2 came, life got increasingly complicated. They would both cry at the same time, and my heart would erupt in worry, practically jumping out of my chest. I was worrying constantly.
And worse, every look they gave me was the most absolutely beautiful precious thing I had ever seen. Delicate miracles, do you understand? Treasures of reality, brought out of the world of ethereal nothing and into my tiny two bedroom in Brooklyn.
And now whenever I visited my parents, I would have similar feelings. Feelings of realizing just how preciously beautiful they are. Just how delicate life is. Just how lucky I am to have them. And when my wife and I took my sister to Indian food, and I realized how freaking lucky we are, the circle was complete.
Do you understand what a travesty this is?
Before, life was natural, everything was stuck in place, and there was no such thing as miracles, no such thing as realizing how delicate it all was. Nothing to be grateful for. That was the good life.
When nothing is beautiful, when nothing is delicate or precious, when we have nothing to live for, life is so much better. We have nobody to worry about. No one for our heart to flutter for when they leave the room, or they cry with their tiny mouths, or get a bit sick.
And it gets worse when you start to open your heart to even more people after that. Friends, acquaintances, even strangers.
This happened to me. Opening my heart to the people around me opened it further and further. Do you know how painful that is? To see girls in Nigeria kidnapped and think of your own daughters? To see wars and revolutions all around and realize that there are real people suffering there? That the person on the street begging for money is actually cold and hungry, and isn’t just a prop G-d put there to make me feel better about my own life?
What a disaster. The more I love, the more I care, and thus the more I worry.
I wish I took a cue from the people that were smarter than me: the ones who never let themselves fall into this trap. The ones who say that “being happy” is all that matters in life.
They’re the smart ones, the ones who don’t notice the miracle that is reality. The ones who focus inwardly and ignore the pain of others and realize that worry is just a burden.
It’s too late for me, honestly, and I realize there’s no turning back. But hopefully it’s not too late for you. The next time someone near you needs some love, run for the hills.
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47 responses to “I Never Should Have Had Children”
Oh, you are just too funny……..( I was going to say “cute” but then I decided it wasn’t “chassidishe”) Yes, loving, caring, marriage, children……..if you let the layers of lead, bricks, cast iron, or even just tissue paper wrapping fall away from your heart, you’ve opened yourself to a tremendously vast ocean of possible worries, anxiety, panic attacks, and various and sordid emotional aches and pains………forever………but then again, you get access to the equally vast heavens of joy, nachas, elation and fulfillment of having discovered the meaning of being a human being here on this earth, with a just a touch of G-dlines/soul as your spiritual engine……..enjoy!
I was thinking about the halacha that the Kohen Gadol had to be married with kids…and Elad has nailed the reason why. Loving your family and worrying about them opens you up to caring about the world instead of sitting idly by when there’s trouble out there or callously focusing on yourself when others are in need.
Beautiful, thank you!
you love, you care, you worry… so true.. i can definitely relate to this… there is so much of insight in this article…
I worry about my kids too. Problem is, I don’t have any kids. I just worry what will happen when, hopefully, with G-d’s help, I do marry and have kids. I sometimes build terrible scenarios in my head and have to remind myself that it’s just my imagination.
I used to worry when I was younger too. I remember one day my Dad was a bit late home from work and I was convinced something terrible had happened, probably a horrible car crash. I worried that my grandparents would die and, sadly, eventually they did, though fortunately most died “old and come on in days” (in fact it’s my paternal grandfather’s yortzeit starting tonight).
So thank you for helping me to reconceptualize this. It’s not that I worry too much (OK, it IS that I worry too much, but that’s a separate issue), but a sign that I do actually care about those around me, that I realize that my relationships are fragile and precious and not to be wasted.
Exactly.
I really like this. Except for the part that kind of implies all people who don’t choose to marry and/or have children believe that caring is a waste of time and love is for suckers, and that they ignore other’s pain and only focus on themselves.
There are many ways to come to the realization that life is miraculous, gentle, and precious, and that it is ultimately worth it to care for others. Marriage and parenting are just one of those ways.
You’re absolutely right, that part bothered me too. I just cut it out.
Thank you for reading, listening, and making the change. Kudos to you.
I second this. Thanks for bringing this up, Stella – and thanks for understanding, Elad!
Ha, Elad! Just wrote a response to this piece, which I thought what your post was going to be a response to: http://jezebel.com/happy-mothers-day-from-the-moms-on-whisper-who-hate-the-1574199180
p.s. The comments are where it’s at.
Oy, that post and its comments gave me heartburn. Where can I see your response?
Tomorrow on Kveller, I believe.
I hate to break it to you, but there is something even worse for you coming up. There is going to be a time when those two precious bundles have grown up, and they will walk out of that protective bubble you placed around them. They will have to face the big, dangerous world on their own without you to protect them. All they will take with them are the lessons you are teaching them now. As valuable as those lessons are, there will be times when they are not enough, and your children will have to find their own path.
Then comes the next step, grandchildren. I know it seems right now that you couldn’t possibly love anyone as much as you love your children, but then your child has a child. The love you have for them and for that grandchild will explode exponentially. Once again, there will be this small, helpless human that you would give your life to protect, but that isn’t your job. It will be your job to stand back and watch your child be the parent.
That will also be the time when you will know what kind of parent you were. You will hear your words coming from your child’s mouth. You will see them doing for their child what you did for them. That will be the moment that you will know that you did your job well, and this precious new life is in good hands.
You have an incredible ride still ahead of you, but you better strap yourself in. It gets bumpy from here.
My gosh this is the best comment ever. Thank you so much for sharing and giving such a deep, beautiful perspective. Might have to share this on my FB page.
Of course you have my permission to share this on FB or anywhere else. If you do, I would appreciate it if you included a link to my blog, http://constructingalife.com/. I can always use some visitors.
I am a big fan of your writing. As a Jew is who is far from observant, I appreciate your point of view. Connecting to Judaism through your writing is very comforting for me.
Thanks for your kind words.
What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen. My name is Mrs SONNIA PEDERSON from U.S.A am 45 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called DR OKAYA he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him OKAYA. I contacted his email address at (OKAYASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address (OKAYASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM) if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. THANKS… ..
Another beautiful piece, Elad! It’s such a joy to read your blog. Have you considered an anthology, or perhaps a book unrelated to the blog?
Thank you so much, Kathy 🙂 I am considering both at the time, and I’m trying to work out a schedule that will allow me to commit the right time to both my blog and bigger projects.
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I just want the whole world to know about this spell caster I met two
weeks ago,I cannot say everything he has done for me cause is too much
to put in writing all I can say is thank you very much am very happy .
In case you need his help contact him on this email address wisdomspiritualtemple@gmail.com he is a good man thanks.
Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help Dr Papa temple render to me in my marital life. i have been married for 4 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside,i notice it then i was praying for divine intervention the thing became more serious i told my pastor about it we prayed but nothing happen. my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside at this time i was confuse not knowing what to do again because i have lost my husband and my marriage too. i was just checking my mails in the office when i saw someone sharing her testimony on how Dr Papa temple help her out with her marital problems so i contacted the email of Dr papa i told him my problem and i was told to be calm that i have come to the right place that i should fill some information concerning my self i did after 30 minus he called me again congratulating me that my problems will be solve within 48 hours. he told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen.that they will restored my marriage but i will make a free donation to their Papa home anything my heart told me. to my greatest surprise my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him i quickly ask him up that i have forgiven him.friends your case is not too hard why don’t you give Dr papa a try they work surprises because i know they will also bring back your husband. contact him via supremetemple@hotmail.com(supremetemple@hotmail.com)
I am Clara from Jakarta in Indonesia. I had a problem i could not give birth for ten years of marriage but today Dr. akpos help me and am happy mother of twins glory be God and thanks to my sister in-law for using Dr. akpos to deliver me.
You can contact him via this email address dr.okpospellhome@gmail.com
or call +2347065630841
my name is Melissa from u.s, I want to thank the great Dr abolo for what he did for me he brought happiness back into my life. My boyfriend left me and told me is over I was devastated as I loved him so much I decided to contact a spell caster and I met a friend who told me of a great doctor and I decided to contact him and he told me in three days my boyfriend will call me and beg me to accept him I thought he was joking in three days everything happened as he said I am so happy you can also contact him at;abolospell@hotmail.com or abolospell@gmail.com for any kind of help, or call 2347052534659. because i promise to publish his email to the world.
Dr Aribgabuwo is a great doctor that has affected so many life positively,he possesses great spiritual power and can handle any kind of problem affecting your life today……
He specialize in the following… for financial problems,
marital issues,
job opportunity,
any kind of sickness or diseases e.g mental disorder,cancer,hiv e.t.c,
if you want your ex back….and many more..
Visit and solve your problem today at arigbabuwospelltemple@gmail.com and i believe you too will have a testimony to share like me.
Goodluck.
My name is Cynthia and my ex-boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problems to him….. he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my peter came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr Ohehen spell caster, you are truly talented and gifted contact his email:(ohehenemenspelltemple001@gmail.com}
What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen. My name is Mrs SONNIA PEDERSON from U.S.A am 45 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called DR OKAYA he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him OKAYA. I contacted his email address at (OKAYASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address (OKAYASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM) if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. THANKS…
What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen. My name is Mrs SONNIA PEDERSON from U.S.A am 45 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called DR OKAYA he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him OKAYA. I contacted his email address at (OKAYASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address (OKAYASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM) if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. THANKS… .
What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen. My name is Mrs SONNIA PEDERSON from U.S.A am 45 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called DR OKAYA he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him OKAYA. I contacted his email address at (OKAYASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again. So my advice for you now is to contact this same email address (OKAYASPELLHELP@GMAIL.COM) if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems. THANKS… .. ..
My name is Arnaud from USA I have to give this miraculous testimony, which is so unbelievable until now. I had a problem with my Ex husband 2years ago, which lead to our break up. when he broke up with me, I was not my self again, i felt so empty inside me, my love and financial situation became worst, until a close friend of mine Lucy told me about a spell caster who helped her in the same problem too his name is Dr john. I email Dr john the spell caster and i told him my problem and i did what he asked of me, to cut the long story short. Before i knew what was happening my husband gave me a call and told me that he was coming back to me in just 2days and was so happy to have him back to me. We have two kids together and we are happy with ourselves. Thanks to Dr olori for saving my relationship and for also saving others own too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster email address is (john.godsend323@gmail.com) you are the best among all the spell caster online I hope you see my testimonies and also pray for my family too
Thank god I was not deceive by who direct me to the right man DR.ABEGBE the magic man that cure HIV/AIDS with 45mins spell let me give my story to the world to see if you are in my shoes so that you can also get help now from him I was married over 5year I don’t know how this HIV come in to our life but god can tell,me and my wife was married with HIV negative but I found out will were both HIV positive after 4year of married and our son was negative and I was very happy for that but will both was positive and this HIV come into our body through sharp object and me and my wife share it with sex that was how will both have the HIV as am write this testimony my wife is close to me with the help of DR.ABEGBE will are wash clear again HIV negative a friendof mine from Facebook introduce me to this man I share my problem to her because will are a good friend and my wife know her very well and this woman show me how to get cured from this man DR.ABEGBE is a nice man if you are faithfully to him he ask me to give him our details to him for consultation I did and he inform me what to do for the cure wish I did and after everything is done he assured me that we will be cured after 45mins and me and my wife will are very happy to show our negative result THANKS DR.ABEGBE you are the best you can get help from him now if you have HIV just contact him through this email . DR.ABEGBESPELLHOME@HOTMAIL.COM OR DR.ABEGBESPELLHOME@GMAIL.COM +2348113017989 CANCER, LIVER PROBLEMS, CHEST PAIN, ALL TYPES OF DEADLY,HIV/AID, Ebola, Rota virus, Smallpox ,Hepatitis DISEASE
Am very happy to tell every one to hear my testimony. I have been married for 6years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had to take my husband away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until i met a post where this man Dr. swami have helped someone and i decided to give him a try to help me bring my husband back home and believe me i just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. You can contact him with this email address swamitemple@yahoo.com I am sure he will do same to help you too.