When Screwups Fall In Love

Isn’t it funny how the times that should make us the most confident sometimes do just the opposite?  That’s exactly what happened after my blog post, “I Didn’t Love My Wife When We Got Married,” went viral.

I was getting all these wonderful, positive, beautiful responses from people.  People who were telling me, “Wow, I so identify with this!” and “Wow, this is exactly what I’ve gone through!” and “Wow, you changed the way I look at love!”

But silly blogger me couldn’t help but focus on the few negative comments.  They were maybe 1% of the comments but they mocked me incessantly, driving me nuts.

Ironically, the ones that bothered me the most weren’t even that bad: they were more bemused than anything.

They were the people that said, “Really?  Wow, you had all these difficulties in your marriage?  You had to learn about love and you lost that loving feeling sometimes?  That’s so weird, my wife/husband and I have been in love since day one and we never lost that feeling.  Oh, dear, yes, we love each other so much, the feeling never left, blah blah blah.”

Punks.  With their happy lives and their beautiful loves that never diminished and that they never struggled with.

Of course, for each one of them, there were thousands upon thousands of people who completely identified with my issues.  But that didn’t matter to my blogger-brain.

My first level of defense was to deny.  I said to myself, “Naw, everyone has struggles.  They must be faking it.”

And while that thought placated me for a bit, every time I would get a new comment like that, I wondered if I was just lying to myself.

Eventually I broke down and admitted that there probably were people out there with those “perfect” marriages, people who never had any trouble ever and who just loved their spouse without any effort.  Maybe people who were naturally programmed to understand that “love is a verb” since day one.

And so now I was at a crossroads: I had to figure out, did the fact that people like that existed destroy my post?  Did it bring down everything I had written?

And even worse: what did this say about my marriage?  Was it possible there was (gasp) something wrong?

And so I started to observe my marriage.  I wrote that post about a week or so after our second daughter was born, so we had introduced a whole new stressor (um, bundle of joy) into our lives.  Some of those old difficulties were coming back.

We were both exhausted, both tense.  Both angry at times.  Sometimes confused and argumentative.  There was this noticeable distance that began since the baby was born, and it was growing.

And the more I observed, the more I realized it wasn’t so much about the marriage itself, but about us.  For example, would have a chance to ease the tension, but instead, I would choose to get angry.  It was my fault.  I could have just said something like, “I love you and I forgive you,” but I didn’t.

And the same with my wife.  She got even more whacky the more our daughter was keeping her up, was eating up her life.

“Oh dear G-d,” I thought, “There really is something wrong with us.  We’re both nuts.”

It’s true.  I have bipolar.  I get irritable very easily.  When my life is stressful, I get even worse.  I get nervous about everything. My wife is equally nuts, and it comes out even more as lack of sleep creeps into the picture.

And at first, this was a depressing realization.  We were screwups.  Pathetic, unfixable screwups.  Love, just like life, for us would never be completely smooth sailing.  We just weren’t wired that way.

But for some reason, the more I thought about it, the more my mood actually started to improve.  The more I accepted I was a screwup, the less my marriage seemed difficult.  At first, it was hard for me to place my finger on exactly why.

But I did know something: If we got into an argument, or we weren’t “feeling it” at every second, it suddenly didn’t seem so weird.  We were screwups.

And that’s when it hit me: our being screwups meant there wasn’t anything actually wrong with our marriage.  It meant there was something wrong with us.  And that realization, ironically, was incredibly freeing.

It meant that our marriage was allowed to have difficult moments.  It meant we were allowed to have ups and downs.

And most importantly, it meant that all we had to do to improve our marriage was to focus inward.  To stop worrying about what was wrong and start focusing on how to grow and improve our own lives.

Amazingly, all these thoughts really did help.  I realized that I, Mr. Screwup, deserved love just as much as Mr. Perfect.  It was our Screwup marriage that had resulted in the birth of two beautiful girls.  Resulted in a love that gets deeper day by day.  Resulted in the best four years of my life.

And it was around this time that I started to notice the other 99% of the comments on my blog post.  And I realized that almost all of these other folks were also screwups: people who had difficulties.  Who weren’t perfect.  Whose love rose and fell just like mine and my wife’s.

And I realized: “Oh my gosh.  We live in a world of screwups.”

So many people, whether it be in the realm of love or anything else, give up their chance of happiness, of love, of changing the world, because they are afraid of all the screwups they will do.  Of the screwups they are.

But the reality is that the only way we can be happy, the only way we can live the life we are meant to live, the only way we can marry the people we’re meant to marry, is if we accept that we’re screwups, and that we’ll continue to screw up for most of our lives.

Should 99% of the people in the world give up their chance at love just because 1% don’t have the same difficulties?  Should they stop taking chances, stop trying to be happy, just because someone else out there does it better than them?

G-d forbid.

You deserve love, no matter how screwed up you are.  You deserve a life that’s beautiful, no matter how hard it is to get there.  You deserve it all.  Because there’s nothing wrong with being a screwup.  But there is something wrong with not embracing life for all it’s worth.

  • Guest

    Love this. As a “screwup”, this is just what I needed to hear

  • Shandel Strasberg

    thank you!

  • Katrina Bascom

    Screwups unite! Awesome!

    On another note, even the perfect people aren’t really perfect. They just haven’t had the opportunity to realize how screwed up they are, yet! 😉

  • Shoshana

    First, in order of retro thoughts on this post, Aish would never have chosen to highlight your post on marriage if it did not speak volumes of truth to their “Judeo Intellect” as I call them. In fact, it was through their email containing that post I found your blog. Second, the negative replies, some people (add emphasis SOME PEOPLE!) just like to create friction with their own non-fiction. Anyone who says they’ve never, ever felt distant or struggled in their marriage has no true love at all. – or honesty. FACT. But their comments served a purpose; we always need to be challenged to grow. That’s never-ending. Mazel tov 🙂

  • Shmuel

    FWIW, my impression is that if people haven’t experienced some sort of discomfort or struggle, they’re probably not doing it right…

  • Rivki Silver

    I agree with Shmuel – I can’t imagine that there are actually people who haven’t experienced any struggle in their relationship (also it’s kind of lame to leave a comment about how perfect one’s marriage is. Kind of insensitive to the rest of us “normal” people who have to work hard at our relationship)

    Marriage is hard work. It’s hard to take two people and add sleep deprivation, the normal responsibilities of life, the challenges of children and not have some sort of tension. And since we are are here to work on ourselves, and have middos to improve, it stands to reason that we are all screwups.

    And thank you for reminding us all to stop being so hard on ourselves already!!

  • mj

    OMG I ABSOLUTELY love what you have posted! My husband and I are both basically bipolar. We love each other to pieces but when we get stressed or very tired….WATCH OUT because we verbally really have it out. But I WOULD NEVER want to share my life, my love with anyone else besides my hubby. I say, “We are perfectly imperfect”! I love having the passionate fights we have and the passion in general for life we both have. I know of a couple who never fight in front of anyone else and are very dutiful in their life(so ultra responsible) yeah sometimes we forget to take our trash or eat way too much…etc BUT they lack passion for each other for life. So while they may think we are mean to each other at times, we know what we have and it is heaven on earth for us. To each his own;)
    PEACE:)

  • Stuart Schnee

    Excellent. thanks

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    YOUR NAME:
    YOUR COUNTRY:
    YOUR MOBILE:
    AGE:
    If he get the details and know the problem you are facing,
    he will proceed with the casting of the spell immediately,
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  • Dr. Zuma

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  • johson mashal

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  • Lisa Billy

    THANKS TO Dr.KEMI the BEST CURE

    A testimony of how i became HIV NEGATIVE, i have been suffering from HIV for the past seven years, i have spend a lot of money finding cure for HIV/AIDS until i found this true man who cured me completely with his powerful herbal medicine, i have tried different means to get this virus out of my body, all the possible ways i tried did not work out for me, i came across DR.KEMI through some amazing testimonies concerning how DR.KEMI has cured different people from various kind of sickness like HERPES,HIV/AIDS, Canceler, with the help of his powerful Herbal Medicine, so i was encourage and i contacted DR.KEMI i told him about my Sickness, He told me not to worry that he was going to prepare some Herbal Medicine for me, after some time in communication with DR.KEMI he finally prepared for me the herbal medicine which he sent to me through courier service and he also gave me prescriptions on how to use it, after taking the Herbal medicine for some days, i went for test to confirm and the result was totally negative ,i went for test again in a different hospital still the same negative , Today i am fit and healthy to live life again, I am so happy for the good work of DR.KEMI in my life, if you are having a similar problem kindly email HIM on { kemilovespelltemple@gmail.com} Or Reach him on whats-app: +233266956805

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    i am Rose from UNITED STATES i was diagnosed with HIV/AIDS for over 12 years which made loose my job and my relationship with my fiance after he discovered that i was having HIV, he departed from me i tried all my best to make him stays with me, but neglected me until a friend of mine on Facebook from Singapore told me Great healer, who will restore my life back with his powerful healing spell, he sent me the email address to contact and i quickly contacted him, and he said my condition can solved, that he will treat the disease immediately only if i can accept trust him and accept his terms and condition, i Agreed because i was so much in need of help by all means, so i did all he want from me and surprisingly on Sunday last week He sent me a text, that i should hurry up to the hospital for a checkup, which i truly did, i confirm from my doctor that i am now ( HIV NEGATIVE) my eyes filled with tears and joy, crying heavily because truly the disease deprived me of many things from my life, This is a Miracle, Please do not en-devour to email drtebe2@gmail.com or whatsapp Dr Tebe on +2348140544262 for healings Thanks

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